Stop dating bad boys
Stop dating bad boys
Women that love to take care of men, and have that nurturing thing going on full force, will feel fulfilled by taking care of a bad boy. The healthiest kind of acts of charity, kindness and nurturing are those that are performed with no strings attached.
One way it leads to trouble is when women become “tapped out” on the thanks they receive for normal good deeds and need more of a “hit” of feeling needed. Some women feel that they don't deserve anything better than bad treatment from bad boys. In fact, sadly, many women learn from their mothers to cultivate relationships with bad boys. And the only way they feel comfortable having sex – or the sex that makes them feel good – is with bad boys.They're imprisoned, and with nowhere to go, and not much to do, having a pen pal relationship with these women who write them, is a default mode.Eric Menendez, one of the Menendez brothers, who is on death row, met his fiance as a pen pal who wrote him in jail.In fact, many women write men who are on death row -- either seeking them out themselves, or answering ads that prisoners put in newspapers or other public media outlets, looking for companionship and more. I continuously get hurt, but I’m attracted to them. Do you have any advice for me to deal with my obsession with bad boys? Boy, There have always been certain women who love bad boys and there is nothing wrong with it – unless, like you, they keep getting hurt because of patterns of similar behavior. (And men love to be taken care of – the good guys love to be taken care of by a woman they love and the bad boys love to be taken care of by any woman.Then, it’s time to take your bad self and figure out why you’re with these bad boys, and how to stop getting hurt . In other words, there is a reason (that you may, or may not, be conscious of) that is why you are finding yourself attracted to bad boys, acting on the attraction, and allowing yourself to get hurt over and over again by these same guys – that’s right – you heard me: allowing yourself to get hurt. In fact, the more women taking care of them, the merrier.) Sometimes that nurturing instinct goes haywire, and women start taking care of their husbands and their boyfriends the way they would take care of their own children.
Bad boys are not called bad men – they’re called bad boys for a reason. They act in their own best interests, like children do, and wind up getting in trouble because of it.
That’s why bad boys, like all children, appear to need taking care of more than men do. When women want to feel needed in order to feel necessary, their need is springing from low self-esteem.
They end up trying to rescue and help people who are deeper and deeper in trouble. Luckily, if you’re one of them, and you’re reading this, now is the time to break that cycle. These women have trouble integrating sex into normal, healthy relationships with men who are good men.
They think that down and dirty sex is bad and they associate it with bad boys.
Dating Men Behind Bars Instead of In Bars One of the bad habits that bad boys embrace is taking off and leaving women high and dry.
Ironically, the only reason that some of these women find relationships with prisoners in jail and on death row is because these men who might normally take off and run, leaving these women high and dry, emotionally and otherwise, can't.